Dating Coaching From Someone Who Understands the Psychology Behind Your Dating and Relationship Struggles
With Dr Kirsty Lee
Most dating coaches give you superficial tactics.
I offer a deep transformation to the way you understand love and relationships that will last you a lifetime.
Meet Your Dating Coach
Dr Kirsty Lee

✔️ Expert in Interpersonal Relationships & Wellbeing: 20+ years in the mental health space
✔️ PhD in Psychology (University of Warwick) and MSc in Health Science (University of York)
✔️ Multi award-winning researcher with work published in world-leading journals
✔️ Certified Coach & Educator, blending psychology expertise with real-world wisdom
✔️ Specialist in how negative interpersonal experiences shape our minds, bodies, and relationships
Why I Created This Program (and Who I Built it For)
What you won’t read in the professional bio is that this smart high achiever spent years in toxic relationships.
I found myself attracted to the same red flags in new packages: emotional unavailability or immaturity, avoidant or anxious attachment styles, lack of commitment, boundary violators and manipulators.
Traditional therapy helped me process my past and why I was attracted to low quality partnerships, but it didn’t teach me how to read and understand behavioural and psychological cues. I developed these skills myself through psychological research and hard-won personal experience.
Who is this dating coaching for?
This is a premium 6-month coaching program designed for smart high-achieving professional women (40-60)
Does this sound like you?
You got yourself out of an unhappy, toxic, or abusive relationship and are now ready to find love. But when it comes to modern dating, you feel like you’re speaking a foreign language.
You’re tired of generic dating advice that ignores the psychological complexity of starting over after a relationship that sucked you dry or stole your confidence.
You’re self-aware enough to know that your past relationship patterns need examining, but you don’t want therapy—you want strategic, actionable guidance from someone who understands the psychology of interpersonal dynamics and the realities of the dating world.
You value emotional intelligence, want to spot red flags before they become dead-end relationships, and you’re ready to invest in premium support to get it right this time.
What You'll Get:
Biweekly 1:1 Dating Coaching Sessions (50 minutes each)
12 total sessions over 6 months.
Real-time processing of dating experiences and relationship challenges.
Strategic planning and course-correction as needed.
Lifetime Access to Haven: Your AI Relationship Companion
🤖 24/7 Non-Judgmental Support.
Process dates, conversations, and concerns in real-time.
Pattern recognition assistance when you’re too close to see clearly.
Gentle accountability for maintaining your standards and boundaries.
Ongoing Support & Accountability
📱 Text Support Between Sessions.
Quick guidance for time-sensitive dating decisions.
Emotional support during difficult moments.
Celebration and validation of your progress and wins.
Comprehensive Resource Library
📚 Research-backed articles on relationships and human behaviour.
Audio library of mediations and affirmations.
Worksheet templates for ongoing self-assessment and growth.
The Complete 6-Month Transformation
Phase 1: Foundation & Assessment (Month 1)
Comprehensive Attachment Assessment
Complete Dating Profile Analysis
Your Personal Relationship Roadmap
Phase 2: Pattern Recognition Mastery (Months 2-3)
Psychological Cue Detection Training
Advanced Red Flag Recognition System
Digital Dating Psychology (e.g., Text Message Analysis)
Phase 3: Healing Integration (Months 3-4)
The Boundaries Blueprint
Trauma-Informed Dating
Pattern Interruption Techniques
Phase 4: Strategic Dating Execution (Months 4-5)
The Strategic Dating Calendar
Conversation Mastery Training
Master the Vibe Check Method
Phase 5: Relationship Transition & Mastery (Month 6)
From Dating to Relationship Transition
Long-term Relationship Success Planning
“Smart Dating for Smart Women Who’ve Been Hurt Before”
What Makes This Dating Coaching Program Different?
✔️ PhD-level psychological insight applied to real-world dating scenarios
✔️ Trauma-informed methodology that heals while you’re actively dating
✔️ Pattern recognition training that teaches you to read people’s psychological profiles
✔️ Modern dating strategy grounded in attachment science
✔️ Premium, time-efficient approach designed for busy professionals
What Our Clients Say
What’s Next? Let’s Work Together
Heal Your Past, Master Your Future. Get the Love you Deserve.
Backed by science, delivered with depth and lightness.
Investment & Guarantee
Total investment for the 6-month program:
£6000
My Promise to You
If you complete the program as designed and don’t feel significantly more confident and skilled in the way you approach dating and relationships, I’ll work with you for an additional 30 days at no charge until you do.
This isn’t just dating coaching, it’s a complete transformation of how you approach love, backed by psychology and delivered with the sophistication and insight you deserve.
Based in Kenilworth Therapy Rooms
FAQs
Traditional therapy focuses on processing your past, which is valuable but doesn't teach you practical dating skills for today's landscape. Generic dating coaches give you surface-level tactics without addressing the psychological patterns that keep you stuck.
My approach combines both: We heal the underlying attachment and relational wounds while simultaneously building practical dating intelligence. You'll learn to read psychological cues in dating profiles, spot emotional unavailability in conversations, and develop the strategic mindset needed to navigate modern dating successfully.
Think of it as trauma-informed dating coaching with a PhD-level understanding of interpersonal relationship, specifically designed for smart and accomplished women who need more than "just put yourself out there" advice.
Absolutely—this is exactly who this program serves. High-achieving women often struggle with dating because the skills that make you successful professionally (analysis, control, strategic thinking) can actually work against you in romantic relationships.
You're used to clear metrics, logical outcomes, and being able to "figure things out" through effort. Dating, especially after a challenging, toxic, or abusive relationship requires different skills: reading emotional intelligence, managing vulnerability, recognising healthy chemistry vs. trauma bonding, i.e., soft skills that require you to relearn how to listen to and trust your intuition and understand the signals from your body.
I'll teach you to apply your analytical strengths productively while developing the emotional intelligence and intuitive skills that successful relationships require. You'll learn to "think strategically about love" without losing the authentic connection that creates lasting partnerships.
Yes. In fact, preparation is the most important phase. Part of this program is doing the healing and processing (deep work) that is often required before clients are fully ready to be vulnerable again.
The first 2 months focus heavily on:
- Understanding your relationship patterns and attachment wounds
- Identifying what healthy love actually looks like for you specifically
- Building the psychological foundation for recognising red and green flags
- Processing trauma responses that might sabotage future relationships
By month 3, you'll feel confident and prepared to date from a place of strength rather than desperation or fear. We move at your pace—some clients start dating immediately, others take 4-5 months to feel ready. Both approaches work.
The problem isn't necessarily the dating apps, it's how you're using them. Most people treat online dating like shopping, focusing on surface-level attraction without understanding the psychology behind profiles and conversations.
I'll teach you to read dating profiles like psychological assessments: What their photo choices reveal about emotional maturity, how the language used in the bio language indicates attachment style, and what their conversation patterns tell you about their relationship capacity.
You'll learn strategic approaches that save time and emotional energy: How to qualify potential partners way before before the first meeting, conversation techniques that reveal true character, and when to cut losses versus when to invest more time.
The result? Instead of endless mediocre dates, you'll have fewer but higher-quality connections with emotionally available partners who match your values and lifestyle.
Yes, if you're not in the Warwickshire area, coaching can be conducted virtually. Whether we work together in-person or online, you'll receive:
- Scheduling flexibility: To fit sessions into your busy schedule
- Comfort and privacy: Discuss intimate relationship topics in private
- Real-time support: In-between session text support from me and 24/7 lifetime access to Haven - my specially developed non-judgy relationship buddy
- Dating in action: I can guide you through dating app optimisation, text conversations, and post-date processing in real-time
Location has never been a barrier to transformation.
Feel free to drop an email to info@faithlovescompany.com
Dating after my divorce felt like fumbling in the dark. I tried to 'put myself out there' and 'just be confident', which is useless when you're dealing with trust issues. This programme taught me to read the psychological signs I'd been missing, in myself and others. I learned to spot emotional unavailability in the first conversation instead of after six months. I also healed the attachment wounds that kept attracting me the wrong men. I'm now in a healthy relationship with someone who actually shows up emotionally. The investment in this program was worth every penny. I would have spent more financially and emotionally on all those bad dates.
Laura J.