No More Dating & Relationship Misery.
Master the Psychology of Dating After A Toxic Relationship.
For smart women 40+ who want intelligent dating advice. Get the trauma-informed, psychologically-grounded coaching that transforms how you approach dating and romance, so that you can move from heartbreak to healthy LOVE.
You’re a high performer who has achieved a lot of success
… but your relationships do not feel so successful.
You’re tired of generic dating advice
… that ignores the psychological complexity of starting over after a toxic marriage or long-term relationship.
You want strategic, actionable guidance
… from someone who understands the psychology of relationships and the realities of modern dating.
I’m here to empower you, step-by-step.
Three Core Benefits
1. Trauma-Informed Healing Integration
Process your past without dwelling in it
Heal attachment wounds from your previous relationships. Our approach addresses the psychological roots of your relationship patterns without keeping you stuck in victim mode or endless rumination.
2. Psychological Red & Green Flag Detection
Learn to read between the lines of dating profiles and first conversations
Stop wasting time on emotionally unavailable, immature, or manipulative partners. Master the psychological cues that reveal someone's attachment style, emotional maturity, and relationship readiness before you're emotionally invested.
3. Strategic Modern Dating Mastery
Navigate today's dating landscape with confidence and clarity
From app optimisation to setting healthy boundaries, learn the strategic and psychological skills needed to attract secure and mature partners who match your values.
“Find Healthy Love After Toxic Heartbreak”
Meet Your Guide
Dr Kirsty Lee
Dr. Kirsty Lee is a psychologist, interpersonal relationship expert, and award-winning researcher.
For over 12 years, she has studied how early life experiences shape our minds, bodies, and relationships. Her research has been published in leading journals including Lancet Psychiatry and JAMA Psychiatry, and featured in media outlets such as The Telegraph, Refinery29, Psych Central, and Science News Explores.
Kirsty formerly worked as an Assistant Professor of Psychology and Director of the MSc in Mental Health & Wellbeing at the University of Warwick. Today, she blends her psychological expertise and real-world experience of
modern dating and recovering from toxic relationships to give you a holistic transformation and understanding of healthy love.
What Our Clients Say
I was so concerned about others’ boundaries and felt selfish when setting my own. Learning more about them combined with role-playing exercises was extremely beneficial. After my 1:1 session, I felt physically lighter.
Rebecca Plimmer